Airports and Goodbyes – Live Life Like a Traveler
21 Jan
On Christmas Eve last year, I went to the airport to pick up a friend of ten years. He was coming home after a 2 year stay in Beijing, taking his Master’s degree. In the old days there would’ve been 3 of us who picked him up, but since we’ve grown up and pursued our own career paths this time it was only me who went.
There’s always something about airports, isn’t there? I think it’s because an airport is a place where everybody either leaves or arrives, but no one stays. When I got there, a young couple of an Indonesian girl and a foreign man were hugging each other like they wouldn’t let go. That and the entire night atmosphere of the airport made me think.
Yes, there were a lot of people that night. There were Chinese, Arabian, Indian, and of course Indonesian people filling up the gates of the airport. There were families waiting for their relatives to arrive, friends that haven’t seen each other for a while, and groups of backpackers that are here to start their adventure of the Archipelago.
As beautiful as an airport is for a place of hellos and goodbyes, nobody stays. At least not for long. There are people there 24 hours a day, but it isn’t exactly a home for anyone.
And that got me thinking about how we live life. An Islam proverb says, “Live life like someone who is crossing the street: travel light and walk fast“. And that’s how I saw the people at the airport that night: they were there, but they knew they would be leaving soon so they didn’t attach themselves with the place, no matter how beautiful it was.
The truth is, the days are long but the years are short. We are here for only a short time, and there is much value to be made. The proverb is wise in saying: live life to the amount that is enough, without being wasteful.
Do you know where this argument is going? That’s right: I feel the way most of us live right now is wasteful. We are wasteful with our time (as if we will always have tomorrow), we are wasteful with our health (as if our youth will last forever), and we are wasteful with every other resource we have (as if there is no accountability over the use of them). And yet, we have a life purpose to fulfill and a job to do.
I won’t explain this much, at least not in one blog post. The point is: live life like a traveler. Absorb the experience in life to make you grow as a character and help you understand how to be your happiness.
Too much baggage will only weigh you down. Yes, they are fun, and even the most shoestring backpacker still needs to bring a backpack. But most of the time, we fill our spaces with superficial and unnecessary possessions that only drain our energy and our minds, when we should be thinking about our priorities.
Check in, then check out. Fasten your seat belt. And don’t forget to put the tray in an upright position.
Enjoy the flight.
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*This is the 2nd candidate for picture of the blog: Nice red antique aircraft.
*Why is it not as easy to find good songwriting blogs. I’ve only found 3 so far: this, this, and this.
[1] Photograph by Kevin Dooley. Because sooner or later, we gotta leave the tarmac.




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